Before I Go

I believe we live into the stories we tell ourselves.

A few years ago, I attended a storytelling workshop in Asheville, NC taught by Minton Sparks.

She modeled an exercise called, Before I Go.

This was my response.

Before I Go

Before I go, I’d like to restore my body

To mend the ravages of careless use

I’d like to heal the wounds and resurrect the spring in my step

I’d like to dance again, with abandon.

Before I go, I’d like to regain my voice

To cut through the scars

To cleanse the detritus and dust off the velvet tones

I’d like to sing again, fearlessly.

Before I go, I’d like to heal the hurt

To mend fences and restore trust

To forgive, so others can forget

I’d like to be a balm, soothing.

Before I go, I’d like my first reaction to be love

To feel secure and not threatened

To respond from strength, fearlessly, automatically

I’d like to embrace whatever comes my way, joyfully.

Before I go, I’d like the mention of my name to bring a smile

To the face of all who hear it

I’d like my name to be a blessing.

Before I go.

I encourage you to take a few minutes and reflect on what’s truly important to you.

Writing it down is the easy part. Being candid with yourself requires an open heart and a willingness to coolly appraise your situation. Good practice for every leader.